If you believe that things happen for a reason, you don’t always have to know what that reason is at every moment. You just trust that it’s right… and trust can’t happen unless there’s a factor of the unknown involved.
"I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman."
lean forward slightly, look straight at the speaker, and listen with a sparkle in your eye… as though you might be thinking “gee, this is the most wonderful thing i’ve ever heard in all my life!”